Tuesday, August 25, 2015
The Days Are Long, But The Years Are Short
Just this past weekend, my daughter returned to Michigan State University and moved into her first apartment. After taking more than a year off to recover from some health issues I have gotten used to her being here, and the house seems so quiet now.
My son is still at home but will be starting his senior year of high school in just a couple of weeks. His time here, too, is limited.
I often think back to when they were small and how long and chaotic the days felt. Now it seems like it has gone by in the blink of an eye.
Years ago I heard an expression regarding the time spent raising your children. "The days are long, but the years are short." When you are in the middle of play dates, school plays, sports, scouts, and the myriad of other things in which your children are involved, it feels like the time you spend carting them around will never end. Now it seems it has ended far too quickly.
If parenting has taught me anything, it is the virtue of patience. Patience not only is needed to deal with children on a daily basis, but also with the time and energy that is spent guiding, teaching and just plain giving of yourself to them. For that precious time will one day come to an end.
For those of you still in the midst of raising young children, enjoy every moment, even the difficult ones, and resist the urge to wish them away.
Like it or not, one day that wish will definitely come true.